Not sure if your date was a win or just polite smiles? These real signs of a good first date will help you know exactly how it went.<\/span><\/h2>\nSo\u2026 was that date actually good or are you just replaying every moment and spiraling? You said goodbye, smiled the whole way home, and now you\u2019re obsessing over every text notification. Did they like you? Was that moment of eye contact real? Should you message first? was it even a good date? And finally, what are the real signs of a good first date?!<\/p>\n
Relax. You don\u2019t need to overanalyze every second or text your group chat 78 times. There are<\/em> some clear, science-backed signs that a first date actually went well. The kind of clues you don\u2019t have to overthink, because your body, your vibe, and even their behavior will already be giving it away.<\/p>\nHere\u2019s something you need to know: The more both people share openly during a first date, the more likely they are to build intimacy and connection. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron, A., et al., 1997, The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s walk through the obvious, subtle, and maybe even sneaky signs a first date went well, so you can stop spiraling and start smiling for real.<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a0Signs you\u2019re unintentionally ruining your first date]<\/p>\n
The obvious & subtle signs a date went well <\/span><\/h2>\nWe overthink first dates, it\u2019s a common thing we all do. However, there\u2019s really no reason to put so much pressure on yourself! If it goes well, great; if it doesn\u2019t, they weren\u2019t meant for you. That\u2019s how you have to see it. <\/p>\n
In the end, it\u2019s just about getting to know one another and searching out whether you might be a good fit for a second date. That\u2019s really all it is. <\/p>\n
But if you want to quit overthinking and focus on reality, it\u2019s a good idea to know the signs of a good date. Then, you can relax and just see what happens. [Read: The best ways to cut a bad date short and moves you shouldn\u2019t ever use]<\/p>\n
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1. You immediately felt comfortable <\/span><\/h3>\nYour subconscious is not stupid. Make sure you listen to it! If you felt immediately comfortable and your guard dropped quickly, the chances are the date went well. <\/p>\n
Your instincts will easily pick up on something that isn\u2019t quite right. You\u2019ll feel something is off.<\/p>\n
By listening to yourself, you get a good read on how the date is going. The chances are, if the date went badly, you\u2019ll know about it from the way it feels in your gut. <\/p>\n
But if you felt comfortable and not at all awkward, you\u2019re likely to have been successful! [Read: Gut instinct \u2013 what it is, how it works, and 30 tips to follow and listen to your gut]<\/p>\n
2. You were laughing and smiling a lot, and it wasn\u2019t forced<\/span><\/h3>\nNobody laughs and smiles a lot without there being a reason! If you look back and remember having a face ache from smiling, then the date was a true success! <\/p>\n
You\u2019re certainly in the realm of a great time if your date is laughing and smiling a lot too. The likelihood of meeting up again is high.<\/p>\n
3. You look back on the date and immediately smile <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you think back on the date, you start smiling uncontrollably and butterflies erupt in your stomach. That means you had a great date and will probably be heading off on another one soon! [Read: Strong feelings after a first date? How to read all the right signs]<\/p>\n
4. Your date was respectful and kind at all times <\/span><\/h3>\nKnowing whether you had a good first date isn\u2019t always about how it felt and whether there\u2019ll be a second one. How did your date treat you? <\/p>\n
If they were respectful and kind, then you had a fantastic first outing. Even if it doesn\u2019t move on toward a repeat performance, you had a great experience.<\/p>\n
5. Conversation was flowing freely <\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the biggest signs a date went well is if the conversation flowed. If you can\u2019t remember many awkward moments of silence, then you had a good time! <\/p>\n
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After all, conversation flows when you feel comfortable with someone. [Read: 26 things to talk about on a first date to make them like you instantly]<\/p>\n
6. You didn\u2019t feel the need to check your phone <\/span><\/h3>\nMost of us grab our phones and start checking for messages and scrolling through social media when we feel awkward or bored. If you didn\u2019t reach for your phone once, that\u2019s a great sign. <\/p>\n
Of course, this works both ways, so your date shouldn\u2019t have been looking at theirs either. The fact that neither of you felt the need to check what was happening on Instagram is positive!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to make your your first date is a great one? Use these guides!<\/strong><\/p>\n7. Your pre-date anxiety disappeared pretty quickly <\/span><\/h3>\nThis goes back to point number one in some ways. If you felt no worry or anxiety, then you had a great date. <\/p>\n
Equally, you shouldn\u2019t have felt anxious after the date either, overanalyzing whether or not a date went well is a sign that it didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
You should feel pretty calm and floating on air afterward. [Read: Signs of anxiety \u2013 How to read the signs ASAP and handle them better]<\/p>\n
8. The date lasted longer than you had planned<\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the best signs a first date went well is that it went on longer than you thought! <\/p>\n
Nobody spends extra time in a dating situation that feels awkward or uncomfortable, or with a person they don\u2019t really vibe with. If the date went on longer, it shows that your date liked spending time with you. [Read: How long should a first date last? The exact timing for a great date]<\/p>\n
9. Your date talked about their personal life <\/span><\/h3>\nAs a general rule, we don\u2019t talk about our personal lives, families, and friends with people we don\u2019t really like or trust. <\/p>\n
If your date was chatting away about their life and mentioning names of those close to them, then you can pretty much guarantee that your date went well!<\/p>\n
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10. You have an \u201cus\u201d joke<\/span><\/h3>\nIf by the end of the date, you have a joke name, e.g. after sharing something funny about your life, or you have an \u2018in\u2019 or \u2018us\u2019 joke, then you\u2019re on great territory! <\/p>\n
This is a clear nod towards a second date on the horizon. [Read: 17 good and bad types of humor and how it affects your relationship with others]<\/p>\n
11. There was a mention of the future <\/span><\/h3>\nThere was a mention or two of doing things together in the future. This is a good sign about how it went. Of course, we randomly mention things like \u2018oh, we should do that\u2019 in general conversation and sometimes don\u2019t mean it. <\/p>\n
But if it happens in conjunction with a few other points on this list, your date was a success and they were actually serious about seeing you again!<\/p>\n
12. You both asked questions with a genuine interest in the answers<\/span><\/h3>\nDuring the conversation, there should be an equal number of questions asked and not just one person firing questions at the other! <\/p>\n
If you were both asking questions and were genuinely interested in the replies, then the date was a good one.<\/p>\n
13. You\u2019re both following each other on social media, or you still are after the date<\/span><\/h3>\nIf you weren\u2019t following each other before, you should be now. It is a clear indicator that the first date went well. <\/p>\n
This means you\u2019re both interested in what the other one is up to, so look for Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat follows.<\/p>\n
14. There was a kiss goodnight <\/span><\/h3>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter if it wasn\u2019t a full-on passionate kiss, any kiss is a good sign! <\/p>\n
Of course, there might be a certain amount of shyness at play that prevented a kiss from happening. In this case, assess the way you parted ways, was there a look of longing? [Read: First kiss tips \u2013 29 secrets to make the first smooch sexy and irresistable]<\/p>\n
15. You received a message quite soon after the date ended<\/span><\/h3>\nAnother way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Here\u2019s something you need to know: The more both people share openly during a first date, the more likely they are to build intimacy and connection. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron, A., et al., 1997, The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s walk through the obvious, subtle, and maybe even sneaky signs a first date went well, so you can stop spiraling and start smiling for real.<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a0Signs you\u2019re unintentionally ruining your first date]<\/p>\n
The obvious & subtle signs a date went well <\/span><\/h2>\nWe overthink first dates, it\u2019s a common thing we all do. However, there\u2019s really no reason to put so much pressure on yourself! If it goes well, great; if it doesn\u2019t, they weren\u2019t meant for you. That\u2019s how you have to see it. <\/p>\n
In the end, it\u2019s just about getting to know one another and searching out whether you might be a good fit for a second date. That\u2019s really all it is. <\/p>\n
But if you want to quit overthinking and focus on reality, it\u2019s a good idea to know the signs of a good date. Then, you can relax and just see what happens. [Read: The best ways to cut a bad date short and moves you shouldn\u2019t ever use]<\/p>\n
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1. You immediately felt comfortable <\/span><\/h3>\nYour subconscious is not stupid. Make sure you listen to it! If you felt immediately comfortable and your guard dropped quickly, the chances are the date went well. <\/p>\n
Your instincts will easily pick up on something that isn\u2019t quite right. You\u2019ll feel something is off.<\/p>\n
By listening to yourself, you get a good read on how the date is going. The chances are, if the date went badly, you\u2019ll know about it from the way it feels in your gut. <\/p>\n
But if you felt comfortable and not at all awkward, you\u2019re likely to have been successful! [Read: Gut instinct \u2013 what it is, how it works, and 30 tips to follow and listen to your gut]<\/p>\n
2. You were laughing and smiling a lot, and it wasn\u2019t forced<\/span><\/h3>\nNobody laughs and smiles a lot without there being a reason! If you look back and remember having a face ache from smiling, then the date was a true success! <\/p>\n
You\u2019re certainly in the realm of a great time if your date is laughing and smiling a lot too. The likelihood of meeting up again is high.<\/p>\n
3. You look back on the date and immediately smile <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you think back on the date, you start smiling uncontrollably and butterflies erupt in your stomach. That means you had a great date and will probably be heading off on another one soon! [Read: Strong feelings after a first date? How to read all the right signs]<\/p>\n
4. Your date was respectful and kind at all times <\/span><\/h3>\nKnowing whether you had a good first date isn\u2019t always about how it felt and whether there\u2019ll be a second one. How did your date treat you? <\/p>\n
If they were respectful and kind, then you had a fantastic first outing. Even if it doesn\u2019t move on toward a repeat performance, you had a great experience.<\/p>\n
5. Conversation was flowing freely <\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the biggest signs a date went well is if the conversation flowed. If you can\u2019t remember many awkward moments of silence, then you had a good time! <\/p>\n
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After all, conversation flows when you feel comfortable with someone. [Read: 26 things to talk about on a first date to make them like you instantly]<\/p>\n
6. You didn\u2019t feel the need to check your phone <\/span><\/h3>\nMost of us grab our phones and start checking for messages and scrolling through social media when we feel awkward or bored. If you didn\u2019t reach for your phone once, that\u2019s a great sign. <\/p>\n
Of course, this works both ways, so your date shouldn\u2019t have been looking at theirs either. The fact that neither of you felt the need to check what was happening on Instagram is positive!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to make your your first date is a great one? Use these guides!<\/strong><\/p>\n7. Your pre-date anxiety disappeared pretty quickly <\/span><\/h3>\nThis goes back to point number one in some ways. If you felt no worry or anxiety, then you had a great date. <\/p>\n
Equally, you shouldn\u2019t have felt anxious after the date either, overanalyzing whether or not a date went well is a sign that it didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
You should feel pretty calm and floating on air afterward. [Read: Signs of anxiety \u2013 How to read the signs ASAP and handle them better]<\/p>\n
8. The date lasted longer than you had planned<\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the best signs a first date went well is that it went on longer than you thought! <\/p>\n
Nobody spends extra time in a dating situation that feels awkward or uncomfortable, or with a person they don\u2019t really vibe with. If the date went on longer, it shows that your date liked spending time with you. [Read: How long should a first date last? The exact timing for a great date]<\/p>\n
9. Your date talked about their personal life <\/span><\/h3>\nAs a general rule, we don\u2019t talk about our personal lives, families, and friends with people we don\u2019t really like or trust. <\/p>\n
If your date was chatting away about their life and mentioning names of those close to them, then you can pretty much guarantee that your date went well!<\/p>\n
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10. You have an \u201cus\u201d joke<\/span><\/h3>\nIf by the end of the date, you have a joke name, e.g. after sharing something funny about your life, or you have an \u2018in\u2019 or \u2018us\u2019 joke, then you\u2019re on great territory! <\/p>\n
This is a clear nod towards a second date on the horizon. [Read: 17 good and bad types of humor and how it affects your relationship with others]<\/p>\n
11. There was a mention of the future <\/span><\/h3>\nThere was a mention or two of doing things together in the future. This is a good sign about how it went. Of course, we randomly mention things like \u2018oh, we should do that\u2019 in general conversation and sometimes don\u2019t mean it. <\/p>\n
But if it happens in conjunction with a few other points on this list, your date was a success and they were actually serious about seeing you again!<\/p>\n
12. You both asked questions with a genuine interest in the answers<\/span><\/h3>\nDuring the conversation, there should be an equal number of questions asked and not just one person firing questions at the other! <\/p>\n
If you were both asking questions and were genuinely interested in the replies, then the date was a good one.<\/p>\n
13. You\u2019re both following each other on social media, or you still are after the date<\/span><\/h3>\nIf you weren\u2019t following each other before, you should be now. It is a clear indicator that the first date went well. <\/p>\n
This means you\u2019re both interested in what the other one is up to, so look for Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat follows.<\/p>\n
14. There was a kiss goodnight <\/span><\/h3>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter if it wasn\u2019t a full-on passionate kiss, any kiss is a good sign! <\/p>\n
Of course, there might be a certain amount of shyness at play that prevented a kiss from happening. In this case, assess the way you parted ways, was there a look of longing? [Read: First kiss tips \u2013 29 secrets to make the first smooch sexy and irresistable]<\/p>\n
15. You received a message quite soon after the date ended<\/span><\/h3>\nAnother way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
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1. You immediately felt comfortable <\/span><\/h3>\nYour subconscious is not stupid. Make sure you listen to it! If you felt immediately comfortable and your guard dropped quickly, the chances are the date went well. <\/p>\n
Your instincts will easily pick up on something that isn\u2019t quite right. You\u2019ll feel something is off.<\/p>\n
By listening to yourself, you get a good read on how the date is going. The chances are, if the date went badly, you\u2019ll know about it from the way it feels in your gut. <\/p>\n
But if you felt comfortable and not at all awkward, you\u2019re likely to have been successful! [Read: Gut instinct \u2013 what it is, how it works, and 30 tips to follow and listen to your gut]<\/p>\n
2. You were laughing and smiling a lot, and it wasn\u2019t forced<\/span><\/h3>\nNobody laughs and smiles a lot without there being a reason! If you look back and remember having a face ache from smiling, then the date was a true success! <\/p>\n
You\u2019re certainly in the realm of a great time if your date is laughing and smiling a lot too. The likelihood of meeting up again is high.<\/p>\n
3. You look back on the date and immediately smile <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you think back on the date, you start smiling uncontrollably and butterflies erupt in your stomach. That means you had a great date and will probably be heading off on another one soon! [Read: Strong feelings after a first date? How to read all the right signs]<\/p>\n
4. Your date was respectful and kind at all times <\/span><\/h3>\nKnowing whether you had a good first date isn\u2019t always about how it felt and whether there\u2019ll be a second one. How did your date treat you? <\/p>\n
If they were respectful and kind, then you had a fantastic first outing. Even if it doesn\u2019t move on toward a repeat performance, you had a great experience.<\/p>\n
5. Conversation was flowing freely <\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the biggest signs a date went well is if the conversation flowed. If you can\u2019t remember many awkward moments of silence, then you had a good time! <\/p>\n
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After all, conversation flows when you feel comfortable with someone. [Read: 26 things to talk about on a first date to make them like you instantly]<\/p>\n
6. You didn\u2019t feel the need to check your phone <\/span><\/h3>\nMost of us grab our phones and start checking for messages and scrolling through social media when we feel awkward or bored. If you didn\u2019t reach for your phone once, that\u2019s a great sign. <\/p>\n
Of course, this works both ways, so your date shouldn\u2019t have been looking at theirs either. The fact that neither of you felt the need to check what was happening on Instagram is positive!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to make your your first date is a great one? Use these guides!<\/strong><\/p>\n7. Your pre-date anxiety disappeared pretty quickly <\/span><\/h3>\nThis goes back to point number one in some ways. If you felt no worry or anxiety, then you had a great date. <\/p>\n
Equally, you shouldn\u2019t have felt anxious after the date either, overanalyzing whether or not a date went well is a sign that it didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
You should feel pretty calm and floating on air afterward. [Read: Signs of anxiety \u2013 How to read the signs ASAP and handle them better]<\/p>\n
8. The date lasted longer than you had planned<\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the best signs a first date went well is that it went on longer than you thought! <\/p>\n
Nobody spends extra time in a dating situation that feels awkward or uncomfortable, or with a person they don\u2019t really vibe with. If the date went on longer, it shows that your date liked spending time with you. [Read: How long should a first date last? The exact timing for a great date]<\/p>\n
9. Your date talked about their personal life <\/span><\/h3>\nAs a general rule, we don\u2019t talk about our personal lives, families, and friends with people we don\u2019t really like or trust. <\/p>\n
If your date was chatting away about their life and mentioning names of those close to them, then you can pretty much guarantee that your date went well!<\/p>\n
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10. You have an \u201cus\u201d joke<\/span><\/h3>\nIf by the end of the date, you have a joke name, e.g. after sharing something funny about your life, or you have an \u2018in\u2019 or \u2018us\u2019 joke, then you\u2019re on great territory! <\/p>\n
This is a clear nod towards a second date on the horizon. [Read: 17 good and bad types of humor and how it affects your relationship with others]<\/p>\n
11. There was a mention of the future <\/span><\/h3>\nThere was a mention or two of doing things together in the future. This is a good sign about how it went. Of course, we randomly mention things like \u2018oh, we should do that\u2019 in general conversation and sometimes don\u2019t mean it. <\/p>\n
But if it happens in conjunction with a few other points on this list, your date was a success and they were actually serious about seeing you again!<\/p>\n
12. You both asked questions with a genuine interest in the answers<\/span><\/h3>\nDuring the conversation, there should be an equal number of questions asked and not just one person firing questions at the other! <\/p>\n
If you were both asking questions and were genuinely interested in the replies, then the date was a good one.<\/p>\n
13. You\u2019re both following each other on social media, or you still are after the date<\/span><\/h3>\nIf you weren\u2019t following each other before, you should be now. It is a clear indicator that the first date went well. <\/p>\n
This means you\u2019re both interested in what the other one is up to, so look for Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat follows.<\/p>\n
14. There was a kiss goodnight <\/span><\/h3>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter if it wasn\u2019t a full-on passionate kiss, any kiss is a good sign! <\/p>\n
Of course, there might be a certain amount of shyness at play that prevented a kiss from happening. In this case, assess the way you parted ways, was there a look of longing? [Read: First kiss tips \u2013 29 secrets to make the first smooch sexy and irresistable]<\/p>\n
15. You received a message quite soon after the date ended<\/span><\/h3>\nAnother way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Nobody laughs and smiles a lot without there being a reason! If you look back and remember having a face ache from smiling, then the date was a true success! <\/p>\n
You\u2019re certainly in the realm of a great time if your date is laughing and smiling a lot too. The likelihood of meeting up again is high.<\/p>\n
3. You look back on the date and immediately smile <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you think back on the date, you start smiling uncontrollably and butterflies erupt in your stomach. That means you had a great date and will probably be heading off on another one soon! [Read: Strong feelings after a first date? How to read all the right signs]<\/p>\n
4. Your date was respectful and kind at all times <\/span><\/h3>\nKnowing whether you had a good first date isn\u2019t always about how it felt and whether there\u2019ll be a second one. How did your date treat you? <\/p>\n
If they were respectful and kind, then you had a fantastic first outing. Even if it doesn\u2019t move on toward a repeat performance, you had a great experience.<\/p>\n
5. Conversation was flowing freely <\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the biggest signs a date went well is if the conversation flowed. If you can\u2019t remember many awkward moments of silence, then you had a good time! <\/p>\n
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After all, conversation flows when you feel comfortable with someone. [Read: 26 things to talk about on a first date to make them like you instantly]<\/p>\n
6. You didn\u2019t feel the need to check your phone <\/span><\/h3>\nMost of us grab our phones and start checking for messages and scrolling through social media when we feel awkward or bored. If you didn\u2019t reach for your phone once, that\u2019s a great sign. <\/p>\n
Of course, this works both ways, so your date shouldn\u2019t have been looking at theirs either. The fact that neither of you felt the need to check what was happening on Instagram is positive!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to make your your first date is a great one? Use these guides!<\/strong><\/p>\n7. Your pre-date anxiety disappeared pretty quickly <\/span><\/h3>\nThis goes back to point number one in some ways. If you felt no worry or anxiety, then you had a great date. <\/p>\n
Equally, you shouldn\u2019t have felt anxious after the date either, overanalyzing whether or not a date went well is a sign that it didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
You should feel pretty calm and floating on air afterward. [Read: Signs of anxiety \u2013 How to read the signs ASAP and handle them better]<\/p>\n
8. The date lasted longer than you had planned<\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the best signs a first date went well is that it went on longer than you thought! <\/p>\n
Nobody spends extra time in a dating situation that feels awkward or uncomfortable, or with a person they don\u2019t really vibe with. If the date went on longer, it shows that your date liked spending time with you. [Read: How long should a first date last? The exact timing for a great date]<\/p>\n
9. Your date talked about their personal life <\/span><\/h3>\nAs a general rule, we don\u2019t talk about our personal lives, families, and friends with people we don\u2019t really like or trust. <\/p>\n
If your date was chatting away about their life and mentioning names of those close to them, then you can pretty much guarantee that your date went well!<\/p>\n
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10. You have an \u201cus\u201d joke<\/span><\/h3>\nIf by the end of the date, you have a joke name, e.g. after sharing something funny about your life, or you have an \u2018in\u2019 or \u2018us\u2019 joke, then you\u2019re on great territory! <\/p>\n
This is a clear nod towards a second date on the horizon. [Read: 17 good and bad types of humor and how it affects your relationship with others]<\/p>\n
11. There was a mention of the future <\/span><\/h3>\nThere was a mention or two of doing things together in the future. This is a good sign about how it went. Of course, we randomly mention things like \u2018oh, we should do that\u2019 in general conversation and sometimes don\u2019t mean it. <\/p>\n
But if it happens in conjunction with a few other points on this list, your date was a success and they were actually serious about seeing you again!<\/p>\n
12. You both asked questions with a genuine interest in the answers<\/span><\/h3>\nDuring the conversation, there should be an equal number of questions asked and not just one person firing questions at the other! <\/p>\n
If you were both asking questions and were genuinely interested in the replies, then the date was a good one.<\/p>\n
13. You\u2019re both following each other on social media, or you still are after the date<\/span><\/h3>\nIf you weren\u2019t following each other before, you should be now. It is a clear indicator that the first date went well. <\/p>\n
This means you\u2019re both interested in what the other one is up to, so look for Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat follows.<\/p>\n
14. There was a kiss goodnight <\/span><\/h3>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter if it wasn\u2019t a full-on passionate kiss, any kiss is a good sign! <\/p>\n
Of course, there might be a certain amount of shyness at play that prevented a kiss from happening. In this case, assess the way you parted ways, was there a look of longing? [Read: First kiss tips \u2013 29 secrets to make the first smooch sexy and irresistable]<\/p>\n
15. You received a message quite soon after the date ended<\/span><\/h3>\nAnother way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Knowing whether you had a good first date isn\u2019t always about how it felt and whether there\u2019ll be a second one. How did your date treat you? <\/p>\n
If they were respectful and kind, then you had a fantastic first outing. Even if it doesn\u2019t move on toward a repeat performance, you had a great experience.<\/p>\n
5. Conversation was flowing freely <\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the biggest signs a date went well is if the conversation flowed. If you can\u2019t remember many awkward moments of silence, then you had a good time! <\/p>\n
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After all, conversation flows when you feel comfortable with someone. [Read: 26 things to talk about on a first date to make them like you instantly]<\/p>\n
6. You didn\u2019t feel the need to check your phone <\/span><\/h3>\nMost of us grab our phones and start checking for messages and scrolling through social media when we feel awkward or bored. If you didn\u2019t reach for your phone once, that\u2019s a great sign. <\/p>\n
Of course, this works both ways, so your date shouldn\u2019t have been looking at theirs either. The fact that neither of you felt the need to check what was happening on Instagram is positive!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to make your your first date is a great one? Use these guides!<\/strong><\/p>\n7. Your pre-date anxiety disappeared pretty quickly <\/span><\/h3>\nThis goes back to point number one in some ways. If you felt no worry or anxiety, then you had a great date. <\/p>\n
Equally, you shouldn\u2019t have felt anxious after the date either, overanalyzing whether or not a date went well is a sign that it didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
You should feel pretty calm and floating on air afterward. [Read: Signs of anxiety \u2013 How to read the signs ASAP and handle them better]<\/p>\n
8. The date lasted longer than you had planned<\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the best signs a first date went well is that it went on longer than you thought! <\/p>\n
Nobody spends extra time in a dating situation that feels awkward or uncomfortable, or with a person they don\u2019t really vibe with. If the date went on longer, it shows that your date liked spending time with you. [Read: How long should a first date last? The exact timing for a great date]<\/p>\n
9. Your date talked about their personal life <\/span><\/h3>\nAs a general rule, we don\u2019t talk about our personal lives, families, and friends with people we don\u2019t really like or trust. <\/p>\n
If your date was chatting away about their life and mentioning names of those close to them, then you can pretty much guarantee that your date went well!<\/p>\n
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10. You have an \u201cus\u201d joke<\/span><\/h3>\nIf by the end of the date, you have a joke name, e.g. after sharing something funny about your life, or you have an \u2018in\u2019 or \u2018us\u2019 joke, then you\u2019re on great territory! <\/p>\n
This is a clear nod towards a second date on the horizon. [Read: 17 good and bad types of humor and how it affects your relationship with others]<\/p>\n
11. There was a mention of the future <\/span><\/h3>\nThere was a mention or two of doing things together in the future. This is a good sign about how it went. Of course, we randomly mention things like \u2018oh, we should do that\u2019 in general conversation and sometimes don\u2019t mean it. <\/p>\n
But if it happens in conjunction with a few other points on this list, your date was a success and they were actually serious about seeing you again!<\/p>\n
12. You both asked questions with a genuine interest in the answers<\/span><\/h3>\nDuring the conversation, there should be an equal number of questions asked and not just one person firing questions at the other! <\/p>\n
If you were both asking questions and were genuinely interested in the replies, then the date was a good one.<\/p>\n
13. You\u2019re both following each other on social media, or you still are after the date<\/span><\/h3>\nIf you weren\u2019t following each other before, you should be now. It is a clear indicator that the first date went well. <\/p>\n
This means you\u2019re both interested in what the other one is up to, so look for Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat follows.<\/p>\n
14. There was a kiss goodnight <\/span><\/h3>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter if it wasn\u2019t a full-on passionate kiss, any kiss is a good sign! <\/p>\n
Of course, there might be a certain amount of shyness at play that prevented a kiss from happening. In this case, assess the way you parted ways, was there a look of longing? [Read: First kiss tips \u2013 29 secrets to make the first smooch sexy and irresistable]<\/p>\n
15. You received a message quite soon after the date ended<\/span><\/h3>\nAnother way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
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After all, conversation flows when you feel comfortable with someone. [Read: 26 things to talk about on a first date to make them like you instantly]<\/p>\n
6. You didn\u2019t feel the need to check your phone <\/span><\/h3>\nMost of us grab our phones and start checking for messages and scrolling through social media when we feel awkward or bored. If you didn\u2019t reach for your phone once, that\u2019s a great sign. <\/p>\n
Of course, this works both ways, so your date shouldn\u2019t have been looking at theirs either. The fact that neither of you felt the need to check what was happening on Instagram is positive!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to make your your first date is a great one? Use these guides!<\/strong><\/p>\n7. Your pre-date anxiety disappeared pretty quickly <\/span><\/h3>\nThis goes back to point number one in some ways. If you felt no worry or anxiety, then you had a great date. <\/p>\n
Equally, you shouldn\u2019t have felt anxious after the date either, overanalyzing whether or not a date went well is a sign that it didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
You should feel pretty calm and floating on air afterward. [Read: Signs of anxiety \u2013 How to read the signs ASAP and handle them better]<\/p>\n
8. The date lasted longer than you had planned<\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the best signs a first date went well is that it went on longer than you thought! <\/p>\n
Nobody spends extra time in a dating situation that feels awkward or uncomfortable, or with a person they don\u2019t really vibe with. If the date went on longer, it shows that your date liked spending time with you. [Read: How long should a first date last? The exact timing for a great date]<\/p>\n
9. Your date talked about their personal life <\/span><\/h3>\nAs a general rule, we don\u2019t talk about our personal lives, families, and friends with people we don\u2019t really like or trust. <\/p>\n
If your date was chatting away about their life and mentioning names of those close to them, then you can pretty much guarantee that your date went well!<\/p>\n
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10. You have an \u201cus\u201d joke<\/span><\/h3>\nIf by the end of the date, you have a joke name, e.g. after sharing something funny about your life, or you have an \u2018in\u2019 or \u2018us\u2019 joke, then you\u2019re on great territory! <\/p>\n
This is a clear nod towards a second date on the horizon. [Read: 17 good and bad types of humor and how it affects your relationship with others]<\/p>\n
11. There was a mention of the future <\/span><\/h3>\nThere was a mention or two of doing things together in the future. This is a good sign about how it went. Of course, we randomly mention things like \u2018oh, we should do that\u2019 in general conversation and sometimes don\u2019t mean it. <\/p>\n
But if it happens in conjunction with a few other points on this list, your date was a success and they were actually serious about seeing you again!<\/p>\n
12. You both asked questions with a genuine interest in the answers<\/span><\/h3>\nDuring the conversation, there should be an equal number of questions asked and not just one person firing questions at the other! <\/p>\n
If you were both asking questions and were genuinely interested in the replies, then the date was a good one.<\/p>\n
13. You\u2019re both following each other on social media, or you still are after the date<\/span><\/h3>\nIf you weren\u2019t following each other before, you should be now. It is a clear indicator that the first date went well. <\/p>\n
This means you\u2019re both interested in what the other one is up to, so look for Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat follows.<\/p>\n
14. There was a kiss goodnight <\/span><\/h3>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter if it wasn\u2019t a full-on passionate kiss, any kiss is a good sign! <\/p>\n
Of course, there might be a certain amount of shyness at play that prevented a kiss from happening. In this case, assess the way you parted ways, was there a look of longing? [Read: First kiss tips \u2013 29 secrets to make the first smooch sexy and irresistable]<\/p>\n
15. You received a message quite soon after the date ended<\/span><\/h3>\nAnother way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
7. Your pre-date anxiety disappeared pretty quickly <\/span><\/h3>\nThis goes back to point number one in some ways. If you felt no worry or anxiety, then you had a great date. <\/p>\n
Equally, you shouldn\u2019t have felt anxious after the date either, overanalyzing whether or not a date went well is a sign that it didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
You should feel pretty calm and floating on air afterward. [Read: Signs of anxiety \u2013 How to read the signs ASAP and handle them better]<\/p>\n
8. The date lasted longer than you had planned<\/span><\/h3>\nOne of the best signs a first date went well is that it went on longer than you thought! <\/p>\n
Nobody spends extra time in a dating situation that feels awkward or uncomfortable, or with a person they don\u2019t really vibe with. If the date went on longer, it shows that your date liked spending time with you. [Read: How long should a first date last? The exact timing for a great date]<\/p>\n
9. Your date talked about their personal life <\/span><\/h3>\nAs a general rule, we don\u2019t talk about our personal lives, families, and friends with people we don\u2019t really like or trust. <\/p>\n
If your date was chatting away about their life and mentioning names of those close to them, then you can pretty much guarantee that your date went well!<\/p>\n
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10. You have an \u201cus\u201d joke<\/span><\/h3>\nIf by the end of the date, you have a joke name, e.g. after sharing something funny about your life, or you have an \u2018in\u2019 or \u2018us\u2019 joke, then you\u2019re on great territory! <\/p>\n
This is a clear nod towards a second date on the horizon. [Read: 17 good and bad types of humor and how it affects your relationship with others]<\/p>\n
11. There was a mention of the future <\/span><\/h3>\nThere was a mention or two of doing things together in the future. This is a good sign about how it went. Of course, we randomly mention things like \u2018oh, we should do that\u2019 in general conversation and sometimes don\u2019t mean it. <\/p>\n
But if it happens in conjunction with a few other points on this list, your date was a success and they were actually serious about seeing you again!<\/p>\n
12. You both asked questions with a genuine interest in the answers<\/span><\/h3>\nDuring the conversation, there should be an equal number of questions asked and not just one person firing questions at the other! <\/p>\n
If you were both asking questions and were genuinely interested in the replies, then the date was a good one.<\/p>\n
13. You\u2019re both following each other on social media, or you still are after the date<\/span><\/h3>\nIf you weren\u2019t following each other before, you should be now. It is a clear indicator that the first date went well. <\/p>\n
This means you\u2019re both interested in what the other one is up to, so look for Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat follows.<\/p>\n
14. There was a kiss goodnight <\/span><\/h3>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter if it wasn\u2019t a full-on passionate kiss, any kiss is a good sign! <\/p>\n
Of course, there might be a certain amount of shyness at play that prevented a kiss from happening. In this case, assess the way you parted ways, was there a look of longing? [Read: First kiss tips \u2013 29 secrets to make the first smooch sexy and irresistable]<\/p>\n
15. You received a message quite soon after the date ended<\/span><\/h3>\nAnother way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
One of the best signs a first date went well is that it went on longer than you thought! <\/p>\n
Nobody spends extra time in a dating situation that feels awkward or uncomfortable, or with a person they don\u2019t really vibe with. If the date went on longer, it shows that your date liked spending time with you. [Read: How long should a first date last? The exact timing for a great date]<\/p>\n
9. Your date talked about their personal life <\/span><\/h3>\nAs a general rule, we don\u2019t talk about our personal lives, families, and friends with people we don\u2019t really like or trust. <\/p>\n
If your date was chatting away about their life and mentioning names of those close to them, then you can pretty much guarantee that your date went well!<\/p>\n
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10. You have an \u201cus\u201d joke<\/span><\/h3>\nIf by the end of the date, you have a joke name, e.g. after sharing something funny about your life, or you have an \u2018in\u2019 or \u2018us\u2019 joke, then you\u2019re on great territory! <\/p>\n
This is a clear nod towards a second date on the horizon. [Read: 17 good and bad types of humor and how it affects your relationship with others]<\/p>\n
11. There was a mention of the future <\/span><\/h3>\nThere was a mention or two of doing things together in the future. This is a good sign about how it went. Of course, we randomly mention things like \u2018oh, we should do that\u2019 in general conversation and sometimes don\u2019t mean it. <\/p>\n
But if it happens in conjunction with a few other points on this list, your date was a success and they were actually serious about seeing you again!<\/p>\n
12. You both asked questions with a genuine interest in the answers<\/span><\/h3>\nDuring the conversation, there should be an equal number of questions asked and not just one person firing questions at the other! <\/p>\n
If you were both asking questions and were genuinely interested in the replies, then the date was a good one.<\/p>\n
13. You\u2019re both following each other on social media, or you still are after the date<\/span><\/h3>\nIf you weren\u2019t following each other before, you should be now. It is a clear indicator that the first date went well. <\/p>\n
This means you\u2019re both interested in what the other one is up to, so look for Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat follows.<\/p>\n
14. There was a kiss goodnight <\/span><\/h3>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter if it wasn\u2019t a full-on passionate kiss, any kiss is a good sign! <\/p>\n
Of course, there might be a certain amount of shyness at play that prevented a kiss from happening. In this case, assess the way you parted ways, was there a look of longing? [Read: First kiss tips \u2013 29 secrets to make the first smooch sexy and irresistable]<\/p>\n
15. You received a message quite soon after the date ended<\/span><\/h3>\nAnother way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
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10. You have an \u201cus\u201d joke<\/span><\/h3>\nIf by the end of the date, you have a joke name, e.g. after sharing something funny about your life, or you have an \u2018in\u2019 or \u2018us\u2019 joke, then you\u2019re on great territory! <\/p>\n
This is a clear nod towards a second date on the horizon. [Read: 17 good and bad types of humor and how it affects your relationship with others]<\/p>\n
11. There was a mention of the future <\/span><\/h3>\nThere was a mention or two of doing things together in the future. This is a good sign about how it went. Of course, we randomly mention things like \u2018oh, we should do that\u2019 in general conversation and sometimes don\u2019t mean it. <\/p>\n
But if it happens in conjunction with a few other points on this list, your date was a success and they were actually serious about seeing you again!<\/p>\n
12. You both asked questions with a genuine interest in the answers<\/span><\/h3>\nDuring the conversation, there should be an equal number of questions asked and not just one person firing questions at the other! <\/p>\n
If you were both asking questions and were genuinely interested in the replies, then the date was a good one.<\/p>\n
13. You\u2019re both following each other on social media, or you still are after the date<\/span><\/h3>\nIf you weren\u2019t following each other before, you should be now. It is a clear indicator that the first date went well. <\/p>\n
This means you\u2019re both interested in what the other one is up to, so look for Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat follows.<\/p>\n
14. There was a kiss goodnight <\/span><\/h3>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter if it wasn\u2019t a full-on passionate kiss, any kiss is a good sign! <\/p>\n
Of course, there might be a certain amount of shyness at play that prevented a kiss from happening. In this case, assess the way you parted ways, was there a look of longing? [Read: First kiss tips \u2013 29 secrets to make the first smooch sexy and irresistable]<\/p>\n
15. You received a message quite soon after the date ended<\/span><\/h3>\nAnother way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
There was a mention or two of doing things together in the future. This is a good sign about how it went. Of course, we randomly mention things like \u2018oh, we should do that\u2019 in general conversation and sometimes don\u2019t mean it. <\/p>\n
But if it happens in conjunction with a few other points on this list, your date was a success and they were actually serious about seeing you again!<\/p>\n
12. You both asked questions with a genuine interest in the answers<\/span><\/h3>\nDuring the conversation, there should be an equal number of questions asked and not just one person firing questions at the other! <\/p>\n
If you were both asking questions and were genuinely interested in the replies, then the date was a good one.<\/p>\n
13. You\u2019re both following each other on social media, or you still are after the date<\/span><\/h3>\nIf you weren\u2019t following each other before, you should be now. It is a clear indicator that the first date went well. <\/p>\n
This means you\u2019re both interested in what the other one is up to, so look for Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat follows.<\/p>\n
14. There was a kiss goodnight <\/span><\/h3>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter if it wasn\u2019t a full-on passionate kiss, any kiss is a good sign! <\/p>\n
Of course, there might be a certain amount of shyness at play that prevented a kiss from happening. In this case, assess the way you parted ways, was there a look of longing? [Read: First kiss tips \u2013 29 secrets to make the first smooch sexy and irresistable]<\/p>\n
15. You received a message quite soon after the date ended<\/span><\/h3>\nAnother way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
If you weren\u2019t following each other before, you should be now. It is a clear indicator that the first date went well. <\/p>\n
This means you\u2019re both interested in what the other one is up to, so look for Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat follows.<\/p>\n
14. There was a kiss goodnight <\/span><\/h3>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter if it wasn\u2019t a full-on passionate kiss, any kiss is a good sign! <\/p>\n
Of course, there might be a certain amount of shyness at play that prevented a kiss from happening. In this case, assess the way you parted ways, was there a look of longing? [Read: First kiss tips \u2013 29 secrets to make the first smooch sexy and irresistable]<\/p>\n
15. You received a message quite soon after the date ended<\/span><\/h3>\nAnother way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Another way to tell if a date was a success or not is whether there was a message soon afterward. <\/p>\n
If you returned home and then got an \u201cI had a great time\u201d message or similar, there is a very high likelihood of date number two. [Read: How to have a great first date \u2013 15 things that always impress]<\/p>\n
\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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16. You remember their initial reaction and it was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nWhether meeting for the first time or not, when you first arrive on the date, that reaction is priceless. The look on your date\u2019s face will say a lot. Are they terrified? Nervous? Are they excited? Barely paying attention?<\/p>\n
When you first walk into the restaurant, open the front door, or walk up to them at the bar, that reaction will make you feel how they feel. [Read:\u00a0How to tell if there\u2019s no chemistry and if you should stop trying]<\/p>\n
17. You felt the spark <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
This is not as much of a sure thing as qualitative moments, but a spark can speak to a lot. Feeling that unspoken thing that just can\u2019t be explained means something. But, it can be one-sided on occasion.<\/p>\n
If you felt that feeling not just overall, but at certain moments you locked eyes and there was just something there, the first date went well. [Read:\u00a0Mutual sexual tension \u2013 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]<\/p>\n
18. Their body language was positive <\/span><\/h3>\nIf they were slouched, looking down, and had their arms crossed all night, the date probably didn\u2019t go too well. Body language often speaks louder than actual speech.<\/p>\n
If they held your hand across the table, put their arm around you, or even mirrored your movement, these are all subtle signs that your date had a great time. <\/p>\n
19. You felt like you could be totally yourself <\/span><\/h3>\nWhen you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
When you leave a first date, you either feel excited or just blah. If you left feeling good, smiling, and dying to tell your BFF exactly how it went, it probably went well. Trust your gut.<\/p>\n
If you felt like you could be totally yourself and you didn\u2019t have to try and act differently to impress *never do this* and that you could simply make the same jokes you always would, that\u2019s a great sign. It means you have a vibe! [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself and 15 signs you need to unfake your life]<\/p>\n
20. Time seemed to fly by<\/span><\/h3>\nDid it seem like five minutes since you sat down and then it was time to leave? As long as it literally wasn\u2019t just five minutes, that\u2019s one of the best signs a first date went well. <\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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When you\u2019re totally engrossed in the other person\u2019s company, you lose all sense of time. What could be better? [Read: How to behave on a first date \u2013 28 tips to impress anyone in minutes]<\/p>\n
21. You didn\u2019t notice much of what was going on around you <\/span><\/h3>\nThis is definitely one of the signs of a good first date. You were so absorbed in the other person and the thrilling conversation you were having, that you didn\u2019t notice anything that was going on around you.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking at the walls, checking out the wallpaper pattern, and memorizing the menu, the chances are the date is not as scintillating as it should be!<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udc49 Want to impress your date in minutes? Use these guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
22. The conversation wasn\u2019t one-sided <\/span><\/h3>\nIf the conversation was equal, and you were contributing as much as they were, that\u2019s another good indicator. If the conversation is more toward one person than the other, it could mean that one person is enjoying it more. <\/p>\n
However, an equal flow of conversation shows investment and enjoyment on both parts.<\/p>\n
23. You regularly made meaningful eye contact and gentle touching <\/span><\/h3>\nIf you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
If you managed to hold eye contact a few times and there was the occasional brush of an arm or foot, you\u2019re finding each other attractive. And you\u2019re both enjoying the date. <\/p>\n
Of course, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to jump on one another as soon as you get out of the bar or restaurant. But subtle touches and looks go a long way! <\/p>\n
24. The date continued elsewhere <\/span><\/h3>\nThis doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you went back home with your date, but if you did, that\u2019s fine too. <\/p>\n
However, if you moved on to a club or a bar after your meal, it\u2019s a sign that neither of you wanted the date to end. You wanted to talk some more. That\u2019s great!<\/p>\n
\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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25. You both listen as well as talk<\/span><\/h3>\nA conversation isn\u2019t just about speaking, it\u2019s about listening too. So, did you both listen as much as you talked? If so, it means you were having a real conversation; you were focused entirely on one another. And that\u2019s a great sign! <\/p>\n
26. You offered each other next-level compliments<\/span><\/h3>\nWe\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
We\u2019re not just talking about \u201cyour outfit is nice,\u201d but something a little deeper. Perhaps they complimented you on something you\u2019ve achieved, or you complimented them on their intelligence. <\/p>\n
Next-level compliments show that you\u2019re both looking deeper than the superficial. [Read: Decoding compliments \u2013 50 cute words and their true meanings]<\/p>\n
27. You can\u2019t wait to see each other again <\/span><\/h3>\nOf course, the best sign a date went well is if you can\u2019t wait to meet up again! If you\u2019re already making plans for the second date, it\u2019s a pretty solid indicator that you like each other and that more dates will come. <\/p>\n
28. Their post-date texts had emotional energy, not just small talk<\/span><\/h3>\nThe follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\nThat shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n
29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\nDid they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n
People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nLet\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n\n\n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n
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If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\nHow was the date for you?<\/span><\/h2>\nWe are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n
We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n
And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n
What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\nHow long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n
If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n
They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n
But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n
[Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n
First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n
The follow-up message after a date isn\u2019t just about if<\/em> they texted you, but how<\/em> they texted you. Did they say something sweet or personal like \u201cI really enjoyed talking to you about [something specific]\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about our convo\u201d?<\/p>\n That shows they were emotionally present, and that the connection made a real impact. Short, dry replies like \u201cyeah it was nice\u201d or \u201ccool meeting you\u201d usually don\u2019t mean a second date\u2019s brewing. \ud83d\udcda Source: Language Style Matching Predicts Relationship Initiation and Stability, Ireland et al., 2011<\/p>\n Did they notice your reactions? Ask how you were feeling? Show concern or excitement based on your energy? That\u2019s emotional attunement, and it\u2019s a huge indicator of romantic potential.<\/p>\n People who are emotionally attuned are more present, responsive, and capable of building intimacy from the very first date. \ud83d\udcda Source: Campos, B.,\u00a0et al.,\u00a02015, Awareness and responsiveness to others\u2019 positive emotion experience and display<\/p>\n Let\u2019s be real: sometimes people linger on dates because they feel obligated or aren\u2019t sure how to end it. But other times? They really<\/em> don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n \n Skip the wait. Join MIRL as a Priority Member with code: MIRLVIP\n <\/p>\n If you both organically changed plans (\u201cWant to grab dessert?\u201d or \u201cWant to walk a bit?\u201d), that\u2019s a very good sign the vibe was mutual and exciting, and not just polite. Bonus points if you both lost track of time and<\/em> didn\u2019t feel like checking your phone. \ud83d\udcda Source: Aron et al., 2000, The Role of Shared Novel Experiences in Relationship Development<\/p>\n We are always so concerned if the date went well for the other person, we forget about how we feel. Are you even interested in this person? Did the date go well for you?<\/p>\n We so badly want approval and fear rejection, so we sometimes focus on that more than our own feelings. If you didn\u2019t think the date went all that well, try not to fret. Do not think about it too much. Time will tell what happens next. <\/p>\n And, if you did think it went well, great. Again, it was probably mutual. But let\u2019s be sure by learning the signs a first date went well. [Read:\u00a051 warnings signs of a bad first date and big red flags in the first few dates]<\/p>\n How long has it been since your date? Three days used to be the norm before the follow-up a couple of decades ago, but now, immediate gratification is the thing. <\/p>\n If your date reached out anywhere from right after the date to 24 hours after, it went well. They have probably been dying to make more plans.<\/p>\n They could have really great self-control or be busy if they wait longer, but usually, if someone thought the first date went well, they will make it known immediately. And if you aren\u2019t sure, reach out on your own for the follow-up.<\/p>\n But, by understanding these signs a first date went well, you won\u2019t worry and you won\u2019t overanalyze. What will be, will be!<\/p>\n [Read:\u00a022 second date tips and rules to get to know each other and fall harder]<\/p>\n First dates don\u2019t come with reviews, but your body, vibe, and their behavior are already telling you the truth. If you saw a few of these signs? That probably wasn\u2019t just a good date, it was the start of something real. So quit spiraling, trust what you felt, and maybe start getting excited for round two.<\/strong><\/p>\n29. You both showed emotional attunement<\/span><\/h3>\n
30. The date was extended, and it wasn\u2019t just convenient<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n
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What comes next?<\/span><\/h2>\n