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When our daughters were younger, and we were going on little sleep and abiding an infant and toddler schedule, we found ourselves sleepwalking into that in-between stage. Maybe you know what I mean? It\u2019s where Christmas borderlines the place where everything is magical and fun, but little ones are still too young to \u201cget it\u201d all. So, my husband and I decided to place our focus on each other and claimed we would do our best to make it magical for our daughters once they got a bit older.<\/p>\n

Well, that year, as we woke up on Christmas morning and came sauntering into the living room, my oldest daughter, who was three at the time, ran straight to the stockings, then paused, and turned to us in bewilderment. Four words came from her mouth, \u201cMommy, were you bad?\u201d There hung all our stockings full of goodies, and then there was mine, with not even so much as a lump of coal. Let\u2019s just say the glaring glances my husband received at that moment were anything but of a doting wife.<\/p>\n

Now, I truly do not want to dishonor my darling hubby or paint him in a bad light in any way because he really had good intentions and actually had the goodies for my stocking; he just forgot to fill it. Sleep deprivation is no joke. Not to mention, he was putting together a rocking horse until midnight.<\/p>\n

Truth be told, we have both learned so much since those early days in our marriage. Besides, the stories easily go both ways, I assure you. The year I gave my hubby football tickets to a game that already took place is still a running joke in our house. Ha!<\/p>\n

But, as we once again gear up for the beauty, awe, and wonder this time of year brings, I am writing specifically for the gentlemen here in a means to simply clarify a little about what your lovely bride may want\/need from you this Christmas.<\/p>\n

Maybe you are raising littles and going on a few hours of sleep, or you have teens (the stage we are currently in) and trying to find ways to create the magic of Christmas in a different way. But I bet your precious wife has already been doing \u201call the things\u201d from decorating to baking, striving to make this time of year filled with moments and memories your whole family will enjoy and love. So, join her and do this beautiful holiday season together. It will not only be a great way to bond but also such a blessing for your marriage.<\/p>\n

And, with that, below are a few ways you can do just that and give your sweet wife a gift she will find simply charming: the gift of YOU!<\/p>\n

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1. Lend a Helping Hand<\/h2>\n
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Here\u2019s the thing, husbands, your wife is on operation overload. Not only does she have her regular tasks to complete and duties to fulfill, but now (while she may seem super giddy about it), she has the added Christmas responsibilities to boot. She has cookies to bake for the church event next week, candy canes to supply for the class party, food to prep for the neighborhood gathering, more decorations to put upstairs, and on and on. You see where I am going here, right?<\/p>\n

If you really want to know something she would love for you to do, ask this simple question, \u201cHoney, how can I help?\u201d Watch her frazzled daze turn into a heartfelt smile in an instant. It could be fixing the lights on the tree or rearranging the garland on the mantle that she can\u2019t manage to reach, but oftentimes, she may not even realize she needs help until you present it to her. We can so easily get in a mode sometimes.<\/p>\n

So let her know you are not only willing, but ready to do what she needs to make Christmas a time filled with memories for all of you to enjoy!<\/p>\n

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2. Speak Her Love Language<\/h2>\n
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While speaking your wife\u2019s love language is essential year-round, there is something about laying it on extra thick this time of year. Trust me, speaking to her heart in this way will really make her melt. Almost as quick as a snowman in Texas!<\/p>\n

If she likes words of affirmation, then let her know how nice the house looks. If she loves it when you do acts of service, then do the dishes one night or help out with the kids. If she likes physical touch, rub her feet after a long day. If she enjoys gifts, bring her home some flowers at random. If she really loves for you to spend time with her, then turn on her favorite Christmas movie and snuggle up.<\/p>\n

When you make time to love your wife the way that touches her heart, especially during a busy time of year when she is caring and loving on others, it will make her feel oh so special. And, if you want to make her feel extra cherished, tell her just how much you love spending Christmas with her and your precious family!<\/p>\n

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3. Create a Magical Date Night<\/h2>\n
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Date nights are always great, but this time of year opens doors for all kinds of magical fun! Get creative by looking into festive activities that are taking place in your area. It doesn\u2019t have to be complex, just something you may not otherwise get to do, like ice skating, hitting a holiday market, or taking a cooking class. You could even take a stroll under the stars, so romantic!<\/p>\n

If you want to win her over, then make all the plans, too. That way, all she has to do is show up! Hire the sitter, plan the event, and just tell her what she may need to bring and wear depending on the activity. Then go and have some fun!<\/p>\n

Related Resource: Listen to The Real Relationship Talk Podcast!<\/h2>\n

Dana Che is the founder of Thrive Relationships, where she serves as a marriage and relationship coach and host of the\u00a0Real Relationship Talk podcast. Dana’s mission is singular: to help people thrive in their relationships with the Lord and with each other. In this episode, she shares five free Christmas gifts that your spouse will love this season. Gift-giving doesn\u2019t always need to be focused on monetary gifts. Sometimes a thoughtful, free gift can make Christmas time extra special. To listen, just click the play button below!<\/p>\n