{"id":65270,"date":"2026-03-31T01:46:05","date_gmt":"2026-03-31T01:46:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/diyhaven858.wasmer.app\/index.php\/are-you-wondering-when-to-get-therapy\/"},"modified":"2026-03-31T01:46:05","modified_gmt":"2026-03-31T01:46:05","slug":"are-you-wondering-when-to-get-therapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/diyhaven858.wasmer.app\/index.php\/are-you-wondering-when-to-get-therapy\/","title":{"rendered":"Are you wondering when to get therapy?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Starting therapy is a significant and often intimidating decision. Typically, this step is taken because you are navigating serious difficulties in your life. This could involve struggles in your relationships\u2014with a partner, parents, or peers\u2014or perhaps you are coping with a recent traumatic event, depression, or anxiety. It\u2019s safe to say that most people seeking therapy are not feeling entirely happy or content with their current situation. If you\u2019re considering therapy, you might feel uncertain and wonder, \u2018How do I know if I need therapy?\u2019 We can provide you guidance by answering some of the Frequently Asked Questions.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Is Therapy?\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therapy provides a safe space to talk with a mental health professional to:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Promote personal growth<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Improve your relationships<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Process difficult emotions<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Develop healthy habits\u00a0 <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Better relationships with loved ones<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is done in a way that offers support and guidance to help the client reach their full potential and achieve emotional wellbeing. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are different <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">modalities <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">depending on the presenting issue and the client\u2019s individual makeup.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Should I Go to Therapy?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are open to talking to someone in a safe space and want to improve your relationships and your emotional wellbeing, you should go to therapy. Therapy is most effective when you are open to the process of being vulnerable and willing to make changes.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What\u2019s the First Step in Looking for a Therapist?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some initial factors to consider when looking for a therapist:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you want telehealth or in person sessions?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you need someone who accepts insurance?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is your budget?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you have a gender or language preference?<\/span><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Does the therapist need to be trained in a certain modality?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Can I Help a Loved One Find a Therapist?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once your loved one has decided they want to go to therapy, you can absolutely help them find a therapist who is a good fit. What does not work is trying to convince someone to go to therapy if they are not ready.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Type of Therapy Is Right for Me?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It depends on your presenting issue (why you are seeking therapy). If you have addiction issues, it is highly recommended that you see someone with that specialty. If you are going with your partner, seeing a trained <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">couples therapist<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is the best option. For more generalized needs, it is fine to see any therapist, provided they are a licensed clinician in your state.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Will I Be Able to Afford Therapy?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are many different options to make therapy affordable and accessible. If you are unable to pay for therapy out of pocket, many therapists accept health insurance. You can find those therapists through your insurance. Many therapists also have sliding scales for middle and lower income individuals and couples.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Happens in the First Session of Therapy?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first session of therapy is dedicated to the therapist introducing themselves and how they practice. The therapist will conduct an assessment, asking you many questions to get to know you better and understand your situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Will I Receive Medication If I Go to Therapy?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Only medical doctors can prescribe medication, so unless you are seeing a psychiatrist, your therapist will not be able\u00a0 to prescribe medication directly. However, if they think it is needed, they can refer you to a psychiatrist for a medication consultation.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Are the Red Flags of an Unqualified or Unethical Therapist?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First of all, you should always check your state or country\u2019s licensing board to ensure the therapist is licensed as a mental health professional and does not have any complaints against them. There are many ethical guidelines that therapists must adhere to regarding the relationship with their clients and how they practice. There are strict boundaries around having\u00a0 relationships with clients outside of the therapeutic one,\u00a0 rules about confidentiality, financial agreements and many more. If something doesn\u2019t feel right, trust your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">judgment and check in with the state licensing board or another trusted professional.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When Does Therapy End?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no definitive end for therapy. However, the goal of every therapist is to work themselves out of a job. That means they are working with you to achieve wellbeing and stability where they no longer need to be in therapy.\u00a0 This can be anywhere from a few months to a few years.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Are the Signs I Need Therapy?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some signs that indicate you might benefit from therapy:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are experiencing depression or anxiety<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your relationship\/marriage is distressed<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You experience more unhappy than happy moments<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Is the 2 Year Rule in Therapy?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The 2 year rule in therapy refers to the ethical standard of prohibiting therapists from engaging in sexual and romantic relationships with clients within 2 years of terminating therapy. However, most ethics boards would discourage therapists from ever having an intimate relationship with a former client.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Can I Speak to a Therapist for Free?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most therapists will provide a free 15 minute consultation to determine whether they are a good fit for you. Aside from that, there are no free sessions.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How Can We Help You?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you need couples therapy, we highly recommend working with a Certified Gottman Therapist since the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">method is research based<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and the training is rigorous and specialized for couples. If you are unsure if you are ready for couples therapy, there are other products and psychoeducational experiences that we offer that will give you a sense of what therapy might look like.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><script  type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\t\t\t\t!function(f,b,e,v,n,t,s){if(f.fbq)return;n=f.fbq=function(){n.callMethod?\n\t\t\t\t\tn.callMethod.apply(n,arguments):n.queue.push(arguments)};if(!f._fbq)f._fbq=n;\n\t\t\t\t\tn.push=n;n.loaded=!0;n.version='2.0';n.queue=[];t=b.createElement(e);t.async=!0;\n\t\t\t\t\tt.src=v;s=b.getElementsByTagName(e)[0];s.parentNode.insertBefore(t,s)}(window,\n\t\t\t\t\tdocument,'script','https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/fbevents.js');\n\t\t\t<\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><br \/>\n<br \/><a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Starting therapy is a significant and often intimidating decision. Typically, this step is taken because you are navigating serious difficulties in your life. This could involve struggles in your relationships\u2014with a partner, parents, or peers\u2014or perhaps you are coping with a recent traumatic event, depression, or anxiety. 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