Some women look calm on the outside while carrying a storm inside. They are successful, capable, loving, and wise. Yet…
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Some women look calm on the outside while carrying a storm inside. They are successful, capable, loving, and wise. Yet…
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You can feel it before you can explain it. The texts get shorter. The warmth in the room changes. Conversations…
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We know that people think talking about money just leads to fighting about money. So couples avoid discussing it…
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Asher and I were walking in the backyard the other day and he said, “It’s amazing how many bunnies we…
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You can have a full life, a strong career, deep friendships, hard-earned wisdom – and still find yourself lying awake…
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You can be successful, wise, generous, and deeply loving – and still lie awake wondering why real partnership has felt…
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It is the third session, and the clinician notices she has been watching the same thing for twenty minutes: one…
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It tends to happen late, after the house has gone quiet. One partner lies awake and runs the reel of…
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